FLOORED

Something I can not wrap my mind around is how people can say they love someone and then want to cause them pain. All of my ex-Boyfriends or even Ex-friends I do not wish pain or suffering upon them. I have had offers from my guy friends who "beat up" my ex-boyfriends or smash in their cars or whatever I don't even hesitate in saying no. If I loved, cared, even just simply liked someone why would I want them to hurt? I have had ex's who have gone completely out of their way after our relationship had ended to hurt me, I still can't find it in myself to do it back to them. I don't know how anyone could wish pain upon someone they love, or even once loved. Its a trait I hope to never acquire.